Six Common Doubts When Starting Aiki-Jujutsu
Martial arts in general offers a very valuable journey of self-discovery. There are different stages within this journey all the way from a beginner to a black belt and beyond. At each stage, there are different challenges and obstacles. Here are some common doubts we see many beginners have.
Is this really for me?
This is a big question at the beginner stage and also at the intermediate stage. In fact, this question will need to be answered on numerous different occasions all the way up to black belt, and maybe even then too!
Self-doubt is not a bad thing, it is a way for you to take a step back from your training and logically ask yourself if Aiki-Jujutsu is still for you. Only you can answer this question but to make sure that you continue to give it a chance I recommend that you focus on three things:
Why did you get started in the first place?
What has Aiki-Jujutsu done for you so far?
What do you still hope to get out of your karate practice?
Is all of this talk about ethics and spiritual values really true?
At first, it seems as if punching and kicking don’t really match the values of discipline and respect and I can’t blame you for thinking that especially after watching television or on social media and learning about the latest mugging, rape, or local school violence. However, the fact of the matter is that self-awareness leads to a greater appreciation of truth in your life and what it means to you specifically. By practicing Aiki-Jujutsu you learn about your own strengths and weaknesses and through hard physical training you learn how to break through previous limitations and take yourself to the next level in your growth and self-discovery.
This usually translates into higher moral and spiritual values which in turn lead to greater self-discipline and respect for our fellow citizens. I believe that all of this is true but it obviously takes time, effort, and commitment to make any kind of lasting behavioral change.
Will I ever get these techniques and drills right?
The more you practice, the more likely you are to get the techniques and drills right. Your ultimate success in Aiki-Jujutsu is in direct proportion to your effort, focus, and persistence. The more that you focus on the fact that you are not getting the drills right, the more you will become frustrated. Change your focus, keep it positive, and suddenly you will get the techniques right.
Doesn't everyone get hurt in sparring?
Everybody gets minor bumps and bruises in sparring even if when are wearing protective gear. This is part of martial arts training. Dont believe anybody who tells you differently. However, very few practitioners experience serious injuries while training at a reputable school that takes every precaution necessary for the safety of its members. The use of safety gear is one reason for this, but a more important reason is the care and knowledge of a competent instructor who knows how to gradually introduce sparring drills that are both age-appropriate and rank-specific. A competent and caring instructor is more important than any piece of safety gear.
These are some of the common doubts in the early stages of martial arts training and there are obviously many more.
Good luck and best wishes on your journey in Aiki Jujutsu.